Sunday, July 26, 2009

What do I do about my hairy b/f who seems to lose hair everywhere?

My b/f has hair in abundance. He seems to lose it everywhere, and to me it is nasty. Lets put it this way I won't take a shower with the guy because I'm worried about what might be stuck to his hair or if I will come out of the shower feeling dirty because his hair is on me. (ex. we have taken one shower together and he finally got out of the shower and I had to retake a shower and then I waited in the shower until he left the room so he wouldn't touch me until I was dry because the thought of his hair being all over me is just gross to me.) I'm a person who can handle gutting a deer but I can't handle this guys hair problem, the main thing is I fell in love with this guy and still don't know how to talk to him about some things. Someone please help!!!!! How do I go about telling the man of my dreams he is to hairy for me and I hate his hair getting all over me, especially in places it don't need to be!!!



What do I do about my hairy b/f who seems to lose hair everywhere?

If you can handle gutting a deer, but not your man's hair, then his hair isn't the real issue at all.



If it were, you'd just say something like "Hey, knuclehead, get a haircut or wax".



The real issue is that you don't like him. How do I know? Because when you are in love, flaws are minimized. Pet peeves are ignored. You don't see the imperfections. This fades with time, but usually only after you are so used to the person you can handle the issue.



I find it very telling the remark about being worried about what is stuck to his hair. What does he do that would make you worry about this? What could possibly be in his hair? And you couldn't stand to touch him after the shower, until you were dry? That's not normal.



You either need to end the relationship because you don't really love him, or you need to get some serious counseling because unless your bf is sasquatch almost any other guy you meet is going to be pretty hairy.



What do I do about my hairy b/f who seems to lose hair everywhere?

sounds like a good waxing is in order?



What do I do about my hairy b/f who seems to lose hair everywhere?

Gross. I'm sorry, but one of the first things in having a successful relationship is communication. If you can not talk to him about this, I'd take a hard look at your relationship, because more issues and problems will arise. How could you even consider anything long term with this guy when a huge part of who he is disgusts you? It will only get worse (I promise) if you do not address it.



What do I do about my hairy b/f who seems to lose hair everywhere?

ewwwwwwww ok um shave or wax or something. just go about it slow and just tell him but be as nice as you can be. tell him i am trying to tell you this as nice as i can so plz try to understand. and if he loves you he will.



What do I do about my hairy b/f who seems to lose hair everywhere?

Damn, I'm hairy too....

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